First, why is body language so important when it comes to women, sex and non verbal communication overall?
We write about, and talk a lot about body language, and even subliminal conversational cues, because it may be the BIGGEST interest there is, especially in the beginning stages of a relationship.
After all... there are very few women who are going to come right out and say - hey you - over here... I'm INTERESTED, so make your move.
Instead, what they really do is say all of the above with mannerisms and movements and motions... and offer the sort of sexy subliminal signs that most men miss. Some really simple signs that a woman is putting off the "I'm interested" vibe?
When a relationship matures a bit... it can be LESS important obviously, but in the beginning stages... it may be ALL the sign you've got!
Let's look at some super simple but universal signs:
Erotic Eye contact. As we've covered in other articles... this CAN go either way. (she either makes and maintains a direct line of sight with you, or she looks away flirtatiously or in a self effacing way, both are pretty simple effacing signs of romantic interest that are saying the same thing)
The "cleavage comes out" trick: This is very funny... and while we've been laughed at for pointing this out in the past, many of our favorite female readers (and writers!) have admitted this is true. How many times have you seen a woman head off for a few minutes to the rest room during a conversation... and come back with ONE button less than she left..:-)
It happens - it's very effective, it's NOT an accident and it does mean she wants to get to know you better to boot.
There are others of course as well - the hair flipping, the subtle pointing out of the toes is another that is very common (and controversial) but considered by MOST relationship experts to be a sexy and subconscious sign she's flirting... even if she doesn't recognize she's doing it.
Important: Is she very touchy feely? The more a woman touches you... the more likely it is that she's trying to let you know that she likes you MORE than her words may reveal. For example, a woman who feels a need to reach over and touch your forearm for no good reason... and does it MORE than once, is literally begging you to notice, and either show reciprocal interest... or make your big move!
The truth is, most people who specialize in the sexes and our often complicated, complex and convoluted ways of communicating all sorts of emotions between us, will tell you that what a woman DOESN'T say, is often much more profound than what she's does. (especially before you go to bed together for the very first time, and she doesn't' want to reveal too much... until she reveals it all!)
Does she want SEX... or JUST to be friends?
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