Do you know that many new relationships are haunted by the
specter of old failed relationships? Do you know that old emotional
baggage from past breakups invariably lead to unresolved feelings of
insecurity, inadequacy, mistrust, resentment, sadness, failure, and a
fear of intimacy, to name a few, that act as a wedge sabotaging all
future relationships? Do you know this leaves individuals feeling
unattractive, alone and living out lives of quiet desperation? Finally,
do you know it is now possible to permanently let go of all that old
emotional baggage simply by deleting any/all negative memories of past
failed relationships from the subconscious mind? Want to learn why and
how this can change your life forever?
If you have ever experienced a failed past relationship and you summon up the memory of it you will immediately recognize that many of the old painful feelings remain very much alive inside you. Although you may not reflect on it daily the old pain, like an old wound, keeps you feeling vulnerable, mistrusting of others, and unable to fully engage with a new person as your spontaneous and authentic self.
In addition the old pain may be associated with feelings of inadequacy, failure, low self esteem and self worth that make you feel and "believe" you are unattractive. Such feelings lead one to create a false persona that they hide behind when meeting someone new. Unfortunately this "mask" makes them appear non-genuine, needy, fake, and untrustworthy. So right off the bat, one is compromised in their ability to form new relationships.
So what is being said here is that it is essentially impossible to form new authentic, honest, open, healthy and successful relationships if one is still carrying within old unresolved emotional pain from past relationship breakups.
Sadly, too many people find themselves feeling needy shortly after a failed relationship and rebound into a new relationship that backfires for exactly the same reasons mentioned above.
What most people don't realize is that as long as the old negative memories remain stored within at the level of the subconscious mind the old pain will always be there.
No therapy I know has the capacity to actually permanently resolve this pain because in order to do so means that it must be able to permanently erase/delete the old negative memory thereby leaving the individual feeling like the event actually never took place.
A decade ago, after working as a psychiatrist for almost 20 years I realized exactly what I just stated; that "therapies" essentially could not address this issue (or any other issues, in my view, for that matter). It was at that time that I started to reflect on why this was and that led to an entirely new understanding of the problem and also a real solution.
It turns out that the old emotional baggage many speak about is based in the negative memories of one's life history stored within them much like a "movie".
Individuals identify themselves by this internal movie. That means everything they come to believe about themselves is derived from this movie. So as long as that memory remains inside them it will serve as the incontrovertible evidence for all their "self" beliefs.
So, if a person has been rejected by a former partner, the memory of the rejection which is stored within will generate and serve as the evidence for such beliefs as: I'm unlovable, I'm unattractive, There's something wrong with me, I'm worthless, I'm vulnerable etc.
Imagine carrying those beliefs with you into a new relationship; how successful do you think they will make your new relationship?
So, here's the solution.
It is now possible to completely and permanently delete/erase any/all negative memories, including those having to do with past relationship breakups. In doing so the individual is restored to a state that preceded the event(s) in question.
Metaphorically, this is like restoring the hard drive of your computer back to a state that preceded the presence of the virus that may currently be disabling it.
Following this type of deletion process the individual is left feeling self confident, strong, attractive, spontaneous, resilient, discerning, secure, peaceful, radiant, worthy, courageous and much more.
This allows them to move forward as their true authentic self into a new relationship in a way that feels even more empowering than in all previous attempts.
So if you are one of those individuals who has been frustrated in your attempts to form new relationships, are carrying old emotional baggage from past failed relationships, and you'd like to permanently unload this negativity then kindly visit the web site below where you can learn more about a new coaching process that can help you restore your relationship life today. There you can also request a free introductory telephone/Skype consultation that will begin to take you there.
If you have ever experienced a failed past relationship and you summon up the memory of it you will immediately recognize that many of the old painful feelings remain very much alive inside you. Although you may not reflect on it daily the old pain, like an old wound, keeps you feeling vulnerable, mistrusting of others, and unable to fully engage with a new person as your spontaneous and authentic self.
In addition the old pain may be associated with feelings of inadequacy, failure, low self esteem and self worth that make you feel and "believe" you are unattractive. Such feelings lead one to create a false persona that they hide behind when meeting someone new. Unfortunately this "mask" makes them appear non-genuine, needy, fake, and untrustworthy. So right off the bat, one is compromised in their ability to form new relationships.
So what is being said here is that it is essentially impossible to form new authentic, honest, open, healthy and successful relationships if one is still carrying within old unresolved emotional pain from past relationship breakups.
Sadly, too many people find themselves feeling needy shortly after a failed relationship and rebound into a new relationship that backfires for exactly the same reasons mentioned above.
What most people don't realize is that as long as the old negative memories remain stored within at the level of the subconscious mind the old pain will always be there.
No therapy I know has the capacity to actually permanently resolve this pain because in order to do so means that it must be able to permanently erase/delete the old negative memory thereby leaving the individual feeling like the event actually never took place.
A decade ago, after working as a psychiatrist for almost 20 years I realized exactly what I just stated; that "therapies" essentially could not address this issue (or any other issues, in my view, for that matter). It was at that time that I started to reflect on why this was and that led to an entirely new understanding of the problem and also a real solution.
It turns out that the old emotional baggage many speak about is based in the negative memories of one's life history stored within them much like a "movie".
Individuals identify themselves by this internal movie. That means everything they come to believe about themselves is derived from this movie. So as long as that memory remains inside them it will serve as the incontrovertible evidence for all their "self" beliefs.
So, if a person has been rejected by a former partner, the memory of the rejection which is stored within will generate and serve as the evidence for such beliefs as: I'm unlovable, I'm unattractive, There's something wrong with me, I'm worthless, I'm vulnerable etc.
Imagine carrying those beliefs with you into a new relationship; how successful do you think they will make your new relationship?
So, here's the solution.
It is now possible to completely and permanently delete/erase any/all negative memories, including those having to do with past relationship breakups. In doing so the individual is restored to a state that preceded the event(s) in question.
Metaphorically, this is like restoring the hard drive of your computer back to a state that preceded the presence of the virus that may currently be disabling it.
Following this type of deletion process the individual is left feeling self confident, strong, attractive, spontaneous, resilient, discerning, secure, peaceful, radiant, worthy, courageous and much more.
This allows them to move forward as their true authentic self into a new relationship in a way that feels even more empowering than in all previous attempts.
So if you are one of those individuals who has been frustrated in your attempts to form new relationships, are carrying old emotional baggage from past failed relationships, and you'd like to permanently unload this negativity then kindly visit the web site below where you can learn more about a new coaching process that can help you restore your relationship life today. There you can also request a free introductory telephone/Skype consultation that will begin to take you there.
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