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How To Make That Longtime Friend Your Girlfriend Again

So you've been friends with a girl for a while now, and you've fallen in love with her. You rack your brains on how to make that longtime friend your girlfriend. The answer is actually right in front of you. Chances are that you chase after her. This approach fails, as you already know. So how about getting her to chase after you?

You're probably thinking how that is even possible when she thinks of you as a friend and not someone to go after.
Most guys do either of two things. They either become diligent in spending time with the girl hoping to win their hearts, or they profess their undying love only to end up talking to the hand.
You have to accept the fact that the girl sees you as a close friend. Once she brands you as such, she won't look at you in another way – or so it seems.

When a girl recognizes you as a friend, her mind and body automatically responds to you in a friendly way. She will never perceive you as someone she would be attracted to. Now, if you change your "friendly" patterns, she will see you as something else – something more like a potential boyfriend, perhaps.
To make that longtime friend your girlfriend, you simply need to do a few things. Some of these are as follows:
Become less available
Become less accessible in terms of communication. You can use the phone and the internet to set up "dates"
Become someone who would give her the best time of her life. Your "dates" should be as memorable for her as possible.
Become the alpha male. Don't follow her around like a lost puppy. Take control.
Understand the complexity of these tips, play your cards right, and you can go and make that longtime friend your girlfriend.

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