THE BOYS' BRIGADE

First dates can be dreadful. We’ve all been there. More often than not it’s just a lot of hustle. And what’s even more frustrating is that they can go from perfect to painfully bad in one second. All it takes is an awkward moment, usually caused by an awkward question! Here are a few you should always avoid.

1. How Come You’re Still Single?!

People tend to blurt this one out, with the best intentions, while having the best time.
The thing is, you saying this really means you think he’s just awesome and you don’t get how come nobody snatched him years ago. But, that’s not how it sounds. As a matter of fact, it kind of sounds like you’re asking what’s wrong with him.

2. When Do You Think You’ll Want to Get Married (and/or Have Kids)?

WHOA! Way too soon for any kind of marriage talk. There’s a clear line you do not cross on the first date. This question is so far out of line, that anything you say or do from that moment on isn’t going to make much difference – you’ve scared the hell out of him.

3. Do You Think I Look Fat in This Dress?

Fishing for compliments is so not ok, ever. You’ll come off childish and vain.

4. How Much Money Do You Make?

Gold-digger alert! At least that’s what he’s going to think. Many people are super sensitive when it comes to their money, and they’re completely entitled to be.
He should choose whether he wants to share this info with you when he thinks it concerns you, and the first date is most definitely not the right time.

5. Do You Believe in Love at First Sight?

You might as well just say I LOVE YOU, and get it out of the way. I mean it is the first date. It’s not inappropriate and weird at all.

6. Why Are all Men Complete Jerks?

Seriously, how’s he supposed to answer this one? Basically, you’ve just told him he’s a jerk like the rest who’ve hurt you in the past.
Plus you’ve made it perfectly clear that the last jerk you’ve dealt with is probably someone you’re still hung up on, seeing as how you harbor that animosity towards all mankind.

7. So, What’s Your “Number”?

Meaning “How many sexual partners have you had?” Usually goes hand in hand with a cheeky smile. Altogether makes out a completely inappropriate question – it’s too soon, and also, too sexual. Chances are he’s going to be under the impression you’re looking to get his “number” up by one.

8. How Come Your Relationship Status on Facebook Says, “It’s Complicated”?

I’m all for online stalking and stuff, but it’s supposed to be done in secret, people! I mean, I get that nowadays it’s all right there, and you can sniff out loads of dirt on anyone with just a click of the mouse. But, come on!
Keep it on the hush side. You don’t want him to get to know all the crazy you have in you on the first date.